Hi Jess,
Not necessarily Urea is too strong but depends on the quantities applied. However, if you simply have a sort of garden greenhouse I wouldn’t use either of those fertilizers if your idea is to dissolve them in the water and then give it to the plants as a nutrient solution.
I would suggest mixing those fertilizers directly in the peat or compost before planting your plants and then irrigate with normal water unless there are clear deficiencies.
If you want to fertigate your existing plants then use only soluble fertilizers suitable for fertigation and NOT granular ones.
Examples are Calcium Nitrate, potassium nitrate, potassium sulphate, Mono-Potassium Phosphate (MKP) etc.
Or also there are some nice compounds that have a mix of NPK ready available.
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